“The unwaged condition of
housework has been the most powerful weapon in reinforcing the
common assumption that housework is not work, thus preventing
women from struggling against it, except in the privatized
kitchen-bedroom quarrel that all society agrees to ridicule,
thereby further reducing the protagonist of a struggle. We are
seen as nagging bitches not workers in struggle.”
-- Silvia Federici
“At the worst, a house
unkept cannot be so distressing as a life unlived.”
-- Rose Macaulay
“Now, as always, the most
automated appliance in a household is the mother.”
-- Beverly Jones
“No longer will we [women]
agree to protect the hearth at the price of extinguishing the
fire within ourselves.”
-- Celia Gilbert
“I buried a lot of my
ironing in the back yard.”
-- Phyllis Diller
(I acknowledge the bias in
these quotes. If you find joy in maintaining a beautiful home,
please do not allow anyone else’s opinion to steal your sense of
worth, accomplishment and contribution!)